Kahlil Gibran’s Quotes about Love & Friendship Resonate Today

Kahlil Gibran’s Quotes about Love & Friendship Resonate Today

In the lengthening after-shadows of Valentine’s Day, and with a dear lady friend in mind — the very lovely “Ms. MCL” who is otherwise spoken for — I meditated on love, the platonic type, which was originally called Socratic love. Platonic love suggests that by disciplining our mind to contemplate the divine beauty in another person, we can “intuit the (actual) nature of the divine.”

Indeed, William Shakespeare intimately experienced and observantly described such platonic love as an all-consuming, impassioned emotion that sways between joy and pain — this topic is most evident in the Bard’s Sonnets.


My own platonic affection for this “Ms. MCL” happily does sway between both extremes. That meditation got me thinking of Kahlil Gibran’s poetic masterpiece, The Prophet, and one of many insightful lines about love and friendship — “To be wounded by your own understanding of love; and to bleed willingly and joyfully.”

Lebanese-American Kahlil Gibran (born Khalil, 1883-1931) is regarded as a literary rebel in the Arab world as his romantic literary style was “at the heart of a renaissance” in modern Arabic literature. And, Gibran is ranked the third-best-selling poet ever, only behind Shakespeare and Laozi. His name and work have been cited by Western pop culture icons, including: Elvis Presley, who was so affected by The Prophet that his handwritten notes appear under passages throughout the museum copy of the book; John Lennon paraphrased a Gibran line in the Beatles’ song “Julia” singing, “Half of what I say is meaningless...”; and, David Bowie mentions Gibran by name in his song, “A Width of a Circle.”


So here are some of my favourite Gibran lines of poetry that deal with love, selected from The Prophet:

•When love beckons to you follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.

•Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself, Love possesses not nor would it be possessed: For love is sufficient unto love.

•You give but little when you give of your possessions.

•It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

•Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.

•To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; to rest at noon and meditate love's ecstasy; to return home at eventide with gratitude; and then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.

•And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit. For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

Khalil Gibran quote if you love something let it go

Finally, for all the “Ms. MCL” characters we platonically get to know and love in our lives, I’ll paraphrase Gibran: “In the sweetness of (our platonic) friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things, does the heart find its morning and is refreshed.”

And, as Gibran so presciently noted about the sweet importance of friendship of someone like Ms. MCL, “Your friend is your needs answered.”

For more information, check out The Prophet as narrated by Richard Harris, a documentary on the great poet, and more brilliant quotes by Gibran.

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  • Wendy Garvie

    As a child, my parents played The Prophet every Sunday like clockwork. As an adult, I still appreciate this piece of work. Played it for my Dad this morning.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Wendy Garvie

    Great story, Wendy, thanks for commenting. Hopefully, others who haven't read The Prophet will be inspired by this story. A little bit more love and friendship in this world is always appreciated!

  • Lincoln Callaghan

    Such a legendary poet !

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Lincoln Callaghan

    True that, Lincoln, thanks for commenting. What's your fave quote of his?

  • Dean Hunt

    I think this a sign for me to reread the books. Every time I do I realize or understand something I didn't get before, or has new meaning to me.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Dean Hunt

    The sign of a literary work that stands the test of time, thanks for commenting Dean. What quote or line sticks out for you?

  • Kirstie Burrows

    Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Kirstie Burrows

    Kirstie, have you read The Prophet previously? Thanks for commenting!

  • Rob Geluk

    I cannot thank you enough for bringing this back to me.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Rob Geluk

    You're welcome, Rob, was there any chapter or verse that stuck with you?

  • Sam Johnson

    Beautiful and relaxing

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Sam Johnson

    Thanks for checking in, Sam, spread it around. I have a copy of The Prophet that a dear friend signed and gave me at a past Christmas, and the book is always close at hand, if I need to meditate on Friendship.

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Ashley Jude Collie

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Ashley is an award-winning journalist/author/blogger who has written for Playboy, Toronto Star, Movie Entertainment, Sports Illustrated, Maclean's and others. He's interviewed various "leaders" in their fields, including: Oscar winners (Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Lawrence, Alicia Vikander, Jane Fonda, Mira Sorvino, Geena Davis, Anthony Hopkins); Grammy winners (Bruce Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Ice Cube, Pete Townshend); MVPs in sports (Peyton Manning, Tom Brady, Wayne Gretzky, Kobe Bryant); and, business leaders (Amazon's Jeff Bezos). He has an upcoming novel, REJEX, coming out on Pulp Hero Press. And he has written several episodic TV shows, appeared on CNN, and blogged for Mademan, Medium, GritDaily and HuffPost.


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