Multi-Award-Winning Songwriter Boldly Kicks Off New LP with Brave Song about her Own Sexual Assault

Multi-Award-Winning Songwriter Boldly Kicks Off New LP with Brave Song about her Own Sexual Assault

Singer/songwriter Natalie Jean calls for more compassion in her new LPWhere Do We Go From Here?which dropped on Valentine’s Day.

Haitian-American Jean envisioned her new concept record as an antidote to an increasingly divided world where love and charity are run over by narcissistic and selfish behavior.

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While her fifteen songs passionately deal with hot-button issues like immigration, racism, gun violence, Mother Nature and climate change and where we should go from here, Jean kicks off the record with an incredibly personal tune that will hopefully shock people to take action. Jean, who recently appeared at the Grammy Awards, explains, “My intimate song ‘I Told You No’ is about the moment after being raped. I thought this was very important as I wanted to convey the emotions I went through. So, it is very personal to me.”

Honest and raw, this poignant song’s lyrics cut to the very bone of the horrifying fact that “the majority of rapes in the U.S. go unreported...and, sexual violence, and rape in particular, is considered the most under-reported violent crime.” Here are her lyrics:

“I lay still/You left me battered and bruised/filled with dread/I am only hanging, I am only hanging by a thread, by a thread.”

“Now, it’s a year later/And you’re still stuck, you’re stuck in my head/I look around every corner/I jump at every sound/I am so lost will I ever be found, will I ever be found.”

Chorus: “I told you no/But you heard yes/I fought/I screamed/I shouted out loud/You said don’t move/But I told you no, I told you no, no, no, no, no…I told you no…I told you no…”

“When I close my eyes/I see the flickering lights/It’s like I’m living in a bad dream/When I will be able to look in the mirror/And see the old me, I want to see the old me.”

—Natalie Jean’s powerful lyrics from “I Told You No” from her new LP “Where Do We Go From Here?”

 

Whoa! Ms. Jean knows the score, because she didn’t initially report her own rape, and, also like others, that wasn’t the first time she’d been sexually assaulted. Check out these awful statistics.

  • Over a 5-year period, an estimated 211,200 rapes and sexual assaults went unreported to police annually on average.
  • A National Violence Against Women Survey, based on a sample size of 8000, described the incidence of rape as 1 in 6 women.
  • A significant number of rapes reported to the police do not advance to prosecution...and, factoring in unreported rapes, about 5% of rapists will ever spend a day in jail.
  • For college students, 95% of rapes were not reported to law enforcement in 2000.
  • Only 26% of rapes were committed by a stranger to the victim.
  • Factoring in unreported rapes, about 5% of rapists will ever spend a day in jail.

The scenario depicted in her “I Told You No” did indeed come from her College days but, as with other women who have kept quiet, there were previous instances in high school. Jean honestly says:

“It was someone that I knew, but not very well. I never reported it. I was ashamed...I didn't think anyone would believe me...I was shocked...At that point in my life, I already had low self esteem. I always wanted people to like me. I questioned, whether I was deserving of this pain. I was already in a lot of pain myself. Growing up, I had a very loving family, but I never really loved myself. I thought I was ugly. Felt out of place. I was out with some friends on campus. Then, it was time to go home and I walked alone. The person grabbed me from behind. I was assaulted and the person ran off. I was able to see who it was. A week later, he apologized. I didn't even know what to say. But at that point, I could never be around him. Everyone knew him as this nice guy, but I knew different. So, I suffered through my pain. I was already a depressive and this just heightened my depression. There were many times, where I sought to end my life. But something allowed me to push through. I got into spirituality and had to learn to love myself. I am not a victim. Now, I am a lot stronger and speak my truth.”

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With 5 previously released independent albums in different languages, Jean has earned over 70 various award nominations, including a 2019 Global Music Awards Medal and was a 2019 Josie Music Awards Winner. For this new album, Jean leaned on her own DNA—French, African, and Creole roots—and eclectic musical tastes. And, the record is full of pop and Americana/country, with some rock and some blues thrown in.

But why did Jean choose the powerfully evocative “ I Told You No” to kick off the record?

“I made it my first song, because I believed it to be impactful and the most shocking. I am a person who always seems to be happy and fighting the good fight. But I wanted people to be aware that there are people out there that have suffered. To not judge a book by its cover. I created this song, because I wanted others to feel what it is like to be assaulted. Some people think that it is the woman's fault—if they had just done something different or worn something different.”

Jean offers some key suggestions:

  • Rape/sexual assault is something that YOU should definitely report
  • With this song, I want to let people know that they are not alone
  • Be assured that there are a lot of support systems out there (some listed below)
  • There are people out there that understand what YOU are going through

She adds, “My overall goal is to get people to feel their own pain. And then, and this is challenging, to be more compassionate and understanding.”

Drop in on Natalie Jean on her website, and on FacebookTwitterInstagram, and YouTube; and, check out her poignant new music on streaming music services, SoundCloud and Spotify. And, read a story on Natalie Jean’s new LP at Medium.

For sexual assault help in the US, call 800.656.HOPE (4673) at the National Sexual Assault Hotline. For more info, check out the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network or RAINN. In the UK, Rape Crisis England & Wales is the umbrella body for a network of independent Rape Crisis Centres. All its member Centres provide specialist support and services for victims and survivors of sexual violence.

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  • Joe Robinson

    Guys can be such hoes, I admire her bravery !

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Joe Robinson

    Thanks for commenting, Joe, you are so right. I'd met Natalie a year ago and didn't know about this incident till she sent me a private link to her new LP on Valentine's Day. Cheers ;)

  • Lyle Ballard

    Say no to sexual harassment

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Lyle Ballard

    Well said, Lyle, thanks for commenting. ;)

  • James Carroll

    This is a terrible world that sadly we all live in.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: James Carroll

    Well, to be fair, it's always been going on, the rich mistreating the poor and environment, and men mistreating women and others. Cheers, mate!

  • Kerry Rock

    I have a daughter.... I can feel your pain...

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Kerry Rock

    Thanks for responding, Kerry, yes, we have to watch our young girls and boys, actually. Cheers.

  • Alan Beck

    You are so brave

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Alan Beck

    She is, Alan, thanks, much. I'll pass it on.

  • Greg White

    I applaud every woman for speaking out against sexual assault. They don’t deserve to be sexually assaulted.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Greg White

    Sometimes, it's challenging for women to speak up. I bet there are women reading this article who would love to speak up but can't quite do it. Natalie hopes they do speak up! Cheers, Greg.

  • Greg White

    In reply to: ashley collie

    Indeed many women don't want to speak out about being sexually assaulted.

  • James Carroll

    Excellent interview

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: James Carroll

    Thanks, James, much appreciate it, mate. ;)

  • Rob Spencer

    She is a beautiful & talented artist.

  • ashley collie

    In reply to: Rob Spencer

    Rob, her new LP is on Spotify and SoundCloud, have you had a listen? Thanks for commenting!

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Ashley is an award-winning journalist/author/blogger who has written for Playboy, Toronto Star, Movie Entertainment, Sports Illustrated, Maclean's and others. He's interviewed various "leaders" in their fields, including: Oscar winners (Matthew McConaughey, Jennifer Lawrence, Alicia Vikander, Jane Fonda, Mira Sorvino, Geena Davis, Anthony Hopkins); Grammy winners (Bruce Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Ice Cube, Pete Townshend); MVPs in sports (Peyton Manning, Tom Brady, Wayne Gretzky, Kobe Bryant); and, business leaders (Amazon's Jeff Bezos). He has an upcoming novel, REJEX, coming out on Pulp Hero Press. And he has written several episodic TV shows, appeared on CNN, and blogged for Mademan, Medium, GritDaily and HuffPost.

   

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