I know but I love her

I know but I love her

Me: Hello, I'm Doctor Profeta. What seems to be the problem?

Patient: Now I'm not gonna lie, doctor. I smoked meth about two hours ago. But I'm here because I think my fiancé might be a prostitute and it got me worried cuz I found this app on her iPhone. Now I have a rash. 

Me: An app? You mean like a hookup app? You think that rash on your legs is a sexually transmitted disease? 

Patient: Umm yeah. You wanna see her pics on the app?

He holds up the phone, I quickly turn away.

Me: Ughh...No. It's not sexually transmitted. It's bed bugs.

Patient: Are you sure?

Me: Yeah I'm sure. I'm a doctor. It says so on my badge. But let's back up. What do you say we get you help for your smoking meth.

Patient: No, it was a one time thing. My fiancé pushed me to try it.

Me: Excuse me if I'm out of line, but it seems to me that marrying a meth-smoking prostitute posting nude pics on a hookup app may not be the brightest life choice.

Patient: I know . . . But I love her.

Dr. Louis M. Profeta is an emergency physician practicing in Indianapolis. He is a national award-winning writer and one of LinkedIn's Top Voices and the author of the critically acclaimed book, The Patient in Room Nine Says He's God. Feedback at louermd@att.net is welcomed. For other publications and for speaking dates or inquiries visit louisprofeta.com.

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  • Shannon Neal

    Majority of "romantic" relationships are just lust.

  • Eric Dolan

    How I define love is, once you are concerned for that person's safety and happiness. You love them.

  • Kyle Montgomery

    Love is when someone gives you food

  • Jonathan Wilson

    So deep !!!

  • Thomas McDonald

    I think if you love someone , it's only natural that you feel the romantic excitement but it shouldn't stop there. Communication is the key to a long lasting relationship.

  • Jose Chemari

    Co-dependency is unhealthy.

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Dr Louis M. Profeta is an emergency physician practicing in Indianapolis. He is one of LinkedIn's Top Voices and the author of the critically acclaimed book, The Patient in Room Nine Says He's God. Dr Louis holds a medical degree from the Indiana University Bloomington.

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