Dear Networker - Are you Creating a Real Network?

Dear Networker - Are you Creating a Real Network?

Swati Agarwal 24/03/2018 8

I am addicted to LinkedIn. I come to this site ten times a day. Though, I am not happy about it, but I know, it's a thousand times better addiction than that of the "Facebook or Instagram". The good thing is the more I visit this platform, the more and more interesting people and stuff I meet and come across. My primary reason to come here is - people.

I love connecting with people so I can learn from them, tell them my stories, start and participate in conversations, hear their stories etc.

And I have been equally fortunate to receive invitations on my profile. So I am assuming there are some people out there who also like to connect with me. Sometimes I get just amazed by the diversity of these people I have been so privileged to know through this network - they come from most unknown countries, nontraditional sectors and industries, remote villages in India, diverse educational backgrounds etc.

However I often wonder, if I am reaching out to a hundred people every day, or vice-versa, will I have the bandwidth to consume their profiles, knowledge base, thoughts, ideas etc? Have I been able to leverage my existing network fully ever? Or do I even know of all the people who are connected with me directly? And if I do, what can I exactly gain or learn from this information?

Over the last one year my network has grown more than doubled - from 1000 to 2000 plus direct connections. And that is a HUGE number! I want to take a pause before I grow it further, to understand who are these people, what are their profiles, interests, backgrounds, geographical locations, age, experience etc.

So I skim through my connections whenever I feel relaxed and have the time to interact. I start reading profiles of people who I have most recently connected with. It is just interesting and super helpful to read and learn from how they have defined their stories in headers, profile summary, awards sections etc. I take a minute to thank some people who I deeply appreciate accepting me as part of their network. I take couple of minutes to respond to some people who reached out to me with their personalized texts. And I notice that the conversations started with such personalized messages help me build the real network!

Nothing else really matters!

Have you known some amazing people through LinkedIn only, and now they feel like part of a family?

Have you built here a trust group who you can reach out to for any help?

What are some of the personalized messages you started that worked best for you, that helped you create those kinds of connections which you think you will always cherish?

Please do respond in comments. It will help me and every reader who comes across your comments.



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  • Adam Perez

    LinkedIn might not be the most popular of all the social networks out there but it's the most useful if you wanna advance in your career.

  • Cecilia Ranger

    It is a great tool for creating strong connections, especially between professionals and thought leaders whom you share similar interests with.

  • Samuel William

    I like LinkedIn cause it helped me stay in touch with people in my industry and build strong connections with them.

  • John Ottaway

    I have met incredible people here on LinkedIn, I have also joined groups that helped me become a better professional.

  • Swati Agarwal

    In reply to: John Ottaway

    Thanks for sharing John. Can you explain more. I am struggling to learn how to learn from joining groups.. and which groups are good for me?

  • John Ottaway

    In reply to: Swati Agarwal

    The best way to join interesting groups is by first getting in touch with leaders in your industry who will introduce you to their network. It's not easy to get an approval but trust me it's worth it.

  • Swati Agarwal

    In reply to: John Ottaway

    Great place to start with, thanks for sharing. :) I will try.

  • Paul Mcfarlane

    I am not a big fan of LinkedIn, their mobile app feels like a huge mess. Even after the Microsoft takeover, I am not impressed with their offerings. Why would you bother subscribing to a premium account when you can find other options way cheaper than that??

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Swati Agarwal

Social Development Expert

Swati is the General Manager of Social Venture Partners (SVP) Hyderaad, where she builds powerful partnerships with non-profit organisations to tackle India's most pressing social challenges. SVP is the world's largest network of engaged philanthropists, with over 3,200+ investor-donors across more than 40 cities worldwide. Swati is a Teach For India Fellow - she has taught 100 girls for two years in a slum community in New Delhi. She has previously worked with Hedge Funds for four years as a consultant in New Delhi and New York. Swati holds a bachelor degree in Computer Science from the Institute of Engineering and Rural Technology.

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